Why Do Men Cheat?

Am sure loads of women would have been asking this same question or their minds would have been working overtime on why their man cheats on them.

There is no rational explanation to this.

Cheating could be anything secret a man shares with another woman behind his wife or girlfriend, it could be from texting, chatting over the phone, physical/sexually, flirting, to extreme complements etc.

Lack of communication and understanding often leads to a man or a partner cheating.

Some men say they fell out of love which I don’t believe love exist in a relationship.

Main factors that could make a man cheat are home issues, nagging partners, violent partner (some women can be violent), partners not good in bed or able to satisfy her man in bed, partners that can’t dress sexy for their man (women need to dress attractive to impress their man) nothing can beat natural beauty, partners that doesn’t take care of themselves as a woman, mind games also leads to a man's infidelity, always accusing a man of cheating could lead him to cheat.

Greed is another factor.

 All men has tendency to lie. Some men likes varieties, they can’t be pleased or satisfied by one woman. The illusion on a man's head/brain is to get a complete or total woman.

A man can have the best woman, almost complete, she’s beautiful, she never nags, she gives him breathing space, she never stops him from going out but yet he still cheats on her, what makes him cheat? Is it because he likes varieties? Or is it because he's greedy? What could this be?

 A man could just finish sleeping with the sexiest woman in the world, as soon as he steps out of the door and spots another woman he would also find her attractive; give him a chance he would also want to get it on with her.

Most men that cheat with different women would never agree to polygamy or would think polygamy is wrong, but yet they sleep or cheats on their wife/girlfriend with different women.

 High sex drive can never be a good excuse for a man to cheat, it can only be an excuse if the man's wife/girlfriend doesn’t fulfill or satisfy his sexual needs, but still that doesn’t mean he should cheat.

 I think it will be a good idea if people find out more about their potential partner's sex drive before they get into a relationship, this will reduce cheating/infidelity and fallouts in relationships.

Sometimes cheating can be inherited or cultural influenced, inherited means what they have seen their father do, or they might have seen their mum cheat on their father so they think its right to cheat too.

Cultural influence can also be another factor because some cultures believe in polygamy or believe a man has the right to be with more than one woman or concubines.

 Alcohol can also play a major role too.

Some men cannot control themselves when drunk or they get easily sexually arouse or horny when they have had a drink. Some easily get carried away when drunk. Some prefers to cheat when drunk so that they wouldn’t feel any guilty when cheating.

Above all cheating can just be some people's nature. They do it because they enjoy doing it, or maybe they get pleasure out of it.

Some women get with a man that has a history of cheating/infidelity but yet shocked when he cheats on them.

Don’t get me wrong once a cheat never always a cheat, people do change.

Does Love Exist??

This is one of the hardest questions in the history or existence of mankind.

There is no rational answer to this.

Morals, lust, romance, chemistry, attachment can often lead to someone say they are in love. Some say love exist maybe I haven’t found it yet, but even if I do what about the long run?

Billions of people round the world ask this same question. Millions will or might not agree to my philosophy.

 Love in a relationship doesn’t exist.

The one and only love that truly exist in this whole wide world is Parental love.

 Nothing in this world can beat parental love.

The love a mother and father have for their offspring is inevitable and unconditional.

Parents love their children till they die no matter if they fallout or anything, that love will always be there.

Only 3percent out of 100 might fall out of love with their children and this might be due to some circumstances or what the child has done to them.

I say love doesn’t exist in a relationship, if you say love exists then I’ve got a
question for you. Can love be bought?...my own answer is yes.

 Money is one of the most powerful things on earth, show some women money and they are all yours, they immediately fall for you and probably tell you they knew they will meet the love of their life and probably tell you how much they love you.

 In the other hand men too tend to fall for a sophisticated woman as well, all they need do is linger around, show affection, tell her what she wants to hear, by doing that his mission is slowly succeeding. This is a true fact, money buy love.

 Is love just a chemical solution in our mind which helps us chooses a sexual partner or is it just a mystical force that guides us to our potential partner?

 Love means different things to different people. Sometimes the word love blows or sweeps potential partners off their feet.

People tend to mistake Attention, Affection, Chemistry and most of all Caring for love.

 In any form of relationship I would say you care not love.

 If love really exists in relationship, then why do people breakup or divorce??

 When people breakup with their partner they say they fell out of love or the relationship is not working. But most will still say they still Care for them, but not in love anymore, and there goes my question again, did the love ever existed in the first place??

 Love should be forever because it comes from the heart, it should never fade, I would say you find real love in older generation, you see couples that have been married for over 60yrs, and probably 20percent have real love.

Some people will say they will do anything for love, in my terms I would say they would do anything because they care. You could do anything for your partner in a relationship, but that doesn’t guarantee a long lasting relationship, don’t get me wrong, when people tell each other in a relationship that they love each other it does open the gate to happiness and also reduces stress, anxiety and worry.

 Sometimes when a partner says I love you, some people tend to reply I love you too just to make the other person feel good. If a man doesn’t say I love you back, he would more likely to lose that woman, or it will always bring friction between the pair because she will start having doubts, negative thoughts also thinking maybe the guy is seeing someone else or having an external affairs.

Some say love is not forever, you make it work, this instead should be relationship is not forever you make it work.

You care a lot and that’s not love.

The reasons why people say they fell out of love is because there's no love in the first place, or they say love died that’s because the expectations wasn’t fulfilled.

There is nothing like love at first sight, it is lust and attraction at first sight. Because you don’t even know about the other person's personality, some people tend to be blinded by lust and attraction.

Because they are already attracted and fallen for the other person they careless about their behaviour and personality and in the long run the attraction slowly fades away and then they end up splitting up or starts living in mystery. 

If love really existed then why after some so-called lovers split up, they start hating each other or can’t stand the sight of each other?

 Above all the only one true long lasting love that never fades is Parental love.

 In relationship it’s Care and not Love.

People tend to say its love but that’s because they care a lot about their partner.