Am sure loads of women would have been asking this same question or their minds would have been working overtime on why their man cheats on them.
There is no rational explanation to this.
Cheating could be anything secret a man shares with another woman behind his wife or girlfriend, it could be from texting, chatting over the phone, physical/sexually, flirting, to extreme complements etc.
Lack of communication and understanding often leads to a man or a partner cheating.
Some men say they fell out of love which I don’t believe love exist in a relationship.
Main factors that could make a man cheat are home issues, nagging partners, violent partner (some women can be violent), partners not good in bed or able to satisfy her man in bed, partners that can’t dress sexy for their man (women need to dress attractive to impress their man) nothing can beat natural beauty, partners that doesn’t take care of themselves as a woman, mind games also leads to a man's infidelity, always accusing a man of cheating could lead him to cheat.
Greed is another factor.
All men has tendency to lie. Some men likes varieties, they can’t be pleased or satisfied by one woman. The illusion on a man's head/brain is to get a complete or total woman.
A man can have the best woman, almost complete, she’s beautiful, she never nags, she gives him breathing space, she never stops him from going out but yet he still cheats on her, what makes him cheat? Is it because he likes varieties? Or is it because he's greedy? What could this be?
A man could just finish sleeping with the sexiest woman in the world, as soon as he steps out of the door and spots another woman he would also find her attractive; give him a chance he would also want to get it on with her.
Most men that cheat with different women would never agree to polygamy or would think polygamy is wrong, but yet they sleep or cheats on their wife/girlfriend with different women.
High sex drive can never be a good excuse for a man to cheat, it can only be an excuse if the man's wife/girlfriend doesn’t fulfill or satisfy his sexual needs, but still that doesn’t mean he should cheat.
I think it will be a good idea if people find out more about their potential partner's sex drive before they get into a relationship, this will reduce cheating/infidelity and fallouts in relationships.
Sometimes cheating can be inherited or cultural influenced, inherited means what they have seen their father do, or they might have seen their mum cheat on their father so they think its right to cheat too.
Cultural influence can also be another factor because some cultures believe in polygamy or believe a man has the right to be with more than one woman or concubines.
Alcohol can also play a major role too.
Some men cannot control themselves when drunk or they get easily sexually arouse or horny when they have had a drink. Some easily get carried away when drunk. Some prefers to cheat when drunk so that they wouldn’t feel any guilty when cheating.
Above all cheating can just be some people's nature. They do it because they enjoy doing it, or maybe they get pleasure out of it.
Some women get with a man that has a history of cheating/infidelity but yet shocked when he cheats on them.
Don’t get me wrong once a cheat never always a cheat, people do change.
or d man can b a total ass or playa!!
ReplyDeletetrue but women do play a lot of mind games,and women can also be a playa aswell
ReplyDeleteThis is why I believe in sexual morality and the removal of lust from relationships, lust is a terrible thing that can never be satisfied, you will keep wanting more and more and your partner will never be able to deliver you that. This is why its important to be faithful in marriage, with purity comes a whole new level of closeness to your partner. If you want to know more I would recommend reading "Sex is not the problem (lust is)" by Joshua Harris, it's an incredible book, changed my life and I'm so much more content now :)
ReplyDeleteThat's true.its not just sex,lust is,dats why some men can't be satisfied with their partners
ReplyDeleteWell, in life one must take the good with the bad. As a child of God I know if I leave all things too him the best of a situation is always expected. I've heard of some couples not only surviving the repercussions of the infidelity but actually appreciate their marriage and eachother more. And yes women can get violent with probable cause, its still not an excuse. maybe the man has been utterly belittling and rude that the woman just snaps. been there done that. All things are possible through Christ, won't be easy but without travailing no prevailing... Violence isn't encouraged we as young people have soo many avenues for temptation it isn't funny... God help us cos Satan is at work
ReplyDeleteHey Stephanie thanks for your comments.your right in some ways.for example in the United Kingdom when women get violent they are the onces that rings the police and the man gets arrested without much questions.and in a way women easily get away with violent which is wrong.now the reasons why men do what they do is expained on the article,sometimes women nags for no genuine or explanable reasons.many of us might have gone through this with our partners.and i noticed there are more conflicts in relationships when both parties are always on each other's space,e.g both unemployed.sometimes in relationship both parties needs to have their own space like social lives,get involved in activities in their communities.this helps aswell because by then it will reduce arguements and fallouts.
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