Monday 8 October 2012

Does Love Exist??


This is one of the hardest questions in the history or existence of mankind.
There is no rational answer to this.

Morals, lust, romance, chemistry, attachment can often lead to someone say they are in love. Some say love exist maybe I haven’t found it yet, but even if I do what about the long run?

Billions of people round the world ask this same question. Millions will or might not agree to my philosophy.
 Love in a relationship doesn’t exist.
The one and only love that truly exist in this whole wide world is Parental love.
 Nothing in this world can beat parental love.
The love a mother and father have for their offspring is inevitable and unconditional.
Parents love their children till they die no matter if they fallout or anything, that love will always be there.
Only 3percent out of 100 might fall out of love with their children and this might be due to some circumstances or what the child has done to them.

I say love doesn’t exist in a relationship, if you say love exists then I’ve got a
question for you. Can love be bought?...my own answer is yes.
 Money is one of the most powerful things on earth, show some women money and they are all yours, they immediately fall for you and probably tell you they knew they will meet the love of their life and probably tell you how much they love you.
 In the other hand men too tend to fall for a sophisticated woman as well, all they need do is linger around, show affection, tell her what she wants to hear, by doing that his mission is slowly succeeding. This is a true fact, money buy love.

 Is love just a chemical solution in our mind which helps us chooses a sexual partner or is it just a mystical force that guides us to our potential partner?
 Love means different things to different people. Sometimes the word love blows or sweeps potential partners off their feet.
People tend to mistake Attention, Affection, Chemistry and most of all Caring for love.
 In any form of relationship I would say you care not love.
 If love really exists in relationship, then why do people breakup or divorce??
 When people breakup with their partner they say they fell out of love or the relationship is not working. But most will still say they still Care for them, but not in love anymore, and there goes my question again, did the love ever existed in the first place??
 Love should be forever because it comes from the heart, it should never fade, I would say you find real love in older generation, you see couples that have been married for over 60yrs, and probably 20percent have real love.

Some people will say they will do anything for love, in my terms I would say they would do anything because they care. You could do anything for your partner in a relationship, but that doesn’t guarantee a long lasting relationship, don’t get me wrong, when people tell each other in a relationship that they love each other it does open the gate to happiness and also reduces stress, anxiety and worry.
 Sometimes when a partner says I love you, some people tend to reply I love you too just to make the other person feel good. If a man doesn’t say I love you back, he would more likely to lose that woman, or it will always bring friction between the pair because she will start having doubts, negative thoughts also thinking maybe the guy is seeing someone else or having an external affairs.
Some say love is not forever, you make it work, this instead should be relationship is not forever you make it work.
You care a lot and that’s not love.
The reasons why people say they fell out of love is because there's no love in the first place, or they say love died that’s because the expectations wasn’t fulfilled.
There is nothing like love at first sight, it is lust and attraction at first sight. Because you don’t even know about the other person's personality, some people tend to be blinded by lust and attraction.
Because they are already attracted and fallen for the other person they careless about their behaviour and personality and in the long run the attraction slowly fades away and then they end up splitting up or starts living in mystery. 
If love really existed then why after some so-called lovers split up, they start hating each other or can’t stand the sight of each other?

 Above all the only one true long lasting love that never fades is Parental love.
 In relationship it’s Care and not Love.
People tend to say its love but that’s because they care a lot about their partner.

3 comments:

  1. Please leave your comments.thanks

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  2. Apparently, you define only everlasting love as love - but why? What is that definition based on? Then you say that one can buy love, but what you mean is clearly not love but someone pretending to love for money. Well pretended love is not exactly what most of us would define as love. So NO, one can NOT buy love but only a show and sex (that's generally known as prostitution). Also a relationship should not be confused with love as such.
    In fact, there IS a rational and scientific answer to this question, but from a very personal point of view I don't think that is the best way to approach this question. As long as we FEEL love, it exists. And many of us do. Even if it doesn't last forever. What's the point in picking at words, affection, love, care, lust... really, what's the point? One can SHOW these things for many different reasons (not all of which are caring or loving at all), but love is not what you show on the outside but what you feel inside. Every human who has ever felt love inside will wonder why you raise this question at all.

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  3. Firtly i defined only everlasting love as real love because it never fades till eternity(dats parental love).
    To be honest the people that fell in love through money will never admit it,only if deep down they will be honest to admit.
    According to what u just said above 'as long as we feel love..it exists' well my question is 'for how long'?until you both fall out of love?.
    Any human who has felt love will wonder why i raised this question?.. well again for how long did they feel the love for?until they fell out of love?or until the love fades away?or until they find a different partner?
    This is why i said the one and only true love that exist is parental love.
    Thank you

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